Because I live in Kentucky, I’m a big basketball fan (Go Cards!), so it’s only natural that March is one of my favorite times of the year. With that comes watching unhealthy amounts of college basketball. As I spent many nights on the couch vicariously living my athletic dreams through these college basketball players, I picked up on some announcer comments I had never paid attention too. My guess is that you’ve heard this phrase used over and over again too. This phrase was heard no matter what game or conference was being broadcast.
Several times throughout March Madness I have heard the announcers describe the players as “kids”. “…this kid is really going to be good”, “…the coach said he’s one of the best kids he’s ever coached”, “the kid has a future in this game…” etc, etc. I look to see who they are talking about and it is a male, 6’8” tall, 290lbs! That is not a kid that is a grown man! Now I realize when they are not referring to his stature but to his age and experience. And that is exactly what has caught my attention.
When did it become commonplace to refer to 18-22 year old individuals as kids? Back in the day, they would have already been married with children and had full time jobs for several years. It’s almost as if we don’t expect much from this age group because they are just “kids” and are still learning and growing. When they mess up, we sometimes excuse it because they don’t know any better yet.
I see this sometimes play out in living out the Gospel as well. First, whenever a new believer accepts Christ, I feel the church doesn’t expect much from them. Yes, there is a season of growth and learning and maturing as a Christian. But is important to remember that they have now received the blood of the Lamb and the power of the Holy Spirit. They are now “more than conquerors!” We should not load new believers up with responsibilities that wisdom tells us is for seasoned believers; but that doesn’t mean they are “kids” and not capable of much for the kingdom.
I have also thought through this in how it looks in the life of a new church. Here at The Avenue, we are a baby church, full of vigor, ambition, and youth. We look to spread the Gospel with a fire and ambition that is rarely matched by more established churches. However, we are also just learning to “walk” and “talk” like a church. We are learning and will make mistakes. So should we be viewed by the community and other churches as just a “kid”? Will other not expect much from us because we are new? Will we not put much pressure on ourselves to advance the Gospel because we are a “baby” church? May it never be!
Let’s change “that baby church will impact the city one day” to “this baby church is changing this city”. Let’s change “that baby church will has a future” to “that baby church is the future”. Change “let’s partner with The Avenue because they need our help” to “let’s partner with The Avenue because God is using them!”
“Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.” 1 Timothy 4:12